It’s Okay to Rest

June 14, 2013 — 1 Comment

I thought I would follow my recent post titled “It’s Okay to Hustle” with this one.  I believe passionately in hard work, but I believe even more in the critical importance of rest.  We see this demonstrated throughout the Bible and historically we see how many bad decisions are made when leaders are exhausted.

I like many of you say things like “I’ll rest once I get through this project or milestone.”  The problem with this idea is that there are often 2-3 new critical projects that follow this one and the hoped for rest period never arrives.

I have learned that in order to effectively rest I must schedule it like everything else.  Sometimes that is months in advance and sometimes it’s only hours in advance.  I know that in order to be most effective and healthy I must schedule both short and long periods of rest to relax and refresh.  This is not easy to do and I do not sit still very well, but it must be done.

With that said I will be taking a 10 day break from blogging.  Generally I schedule posts out weeks in advance, but I’ve decided not to do that this time.  I will simply be taking a break from blogging for a few days to focus on rest, relaxation, and my family.  I look forward to returning from this time as I know that this time of disconnection will also lead to fresh thoughts and a renewed passion in everything that I do.

Have you scheduled rest recently?  If not, I hope you will take a look at your calendar and commit to it today.

It’s Okay to Hustle

June 10, 2013 — 2 Comments

Can I touch on a tension among ministry leaders that I sense?  I see many ministry leaders that are workaholics (and I’ll admit that I border this at times).  I hear it all of the time at conferences that we need to slow down and find a healthy balance.  I don’t disagree with this need for many leaders.  On the other side of this tension I see a lot of ministry leaders who show up late, leave early, and drink a lot coffee in between.

In the midst of this tension can I suggest that it’s okay to hustle?  Actually, I believe that hustle is not just okay, but essential for effective ministry.  Hard work is biblical, isn’t it?

Please don’t hear me wrong.  I believe in balance between ministry/work and home/personal time.  I believe that casual coffee talk is valuable ministry time.  I also believe in passionate, focused, and just plain hard work when it comes to ministry efforts.  I believe in coming in early at times, working through lunch, and staying after hours (on occasion).  Ministry work has eternal impact and deserves our best effort.

People have often asked me what the secret to success has been for Online Church.  In asking this question they are asking me for a shortcut and I try to give them every possible one that I can.  The reality though of this ministry success is the favor of God and a lot of hard work (not just me, but dozens of passionate leaders).  Ministries have tried to impersonate the ministry, but they honestly weren’t willing to give the same effort and in turn have seen very different results.

I expect to get negative feedback on this post and I understand that.  I believe in both sides of the tension in that I see too many ministry leaders working too hard and burning out.  The message to slow down definitely needs to be communicated to many.  It is also my belief that the other side of this conversation needs to be communicated as well as there are many ministry leaders that need a fire lit under them to simply hustle.

Please share your thoughts, I really do want to hear them.

I must confess that I’m cheap.  I like free and discounted things and I’m often looking for a good deal.  I have found through my stinginess that little value in these discounted items and the most valuable things almost always come at a significant cost.

Churches are often the worst at looking for the discount or freebie as we are functioning on ministry budgets.  I get it!  I do it.  I regret it.

I’ve learned more recently about church resources such as curriculum and technology resources.  Our churches rely heavily on these resources and if we’re honest they save us a ton of time and money.  Imagine if you had to create your entire curriculum in house or manage your church database and finances on Excel.  These are valuable resources that we need to expand with more curriculums to be created and new technologies to be developed.

I understand being a good steward and before trying to negotiate a better price, consider how much time or money you are saving by using the resource in comparison to not using it.  In my experience I have yet to find anyone getting rich creating resources for the Church.  Even if someone does I will praise God for him or her as I’m guessing they’ve created a pretty incredible resource for the Church.

Here’s the reality to church resources: they need our resources so that they can create more and better resources.  It’s really pretty simple.

Here’s what I want to encourage you to do: next time you are signing up for a new account or purchasing a set of curriculum instead of negotiating a lower price simply thank them for creating the resource and ask them how you can help them get better.  When they get better, WE get better!  That’s far more valuable than saving $50/month.

This video is not new, but will mess with your mind.  Take a minute to watch to watch and I’ll be willing to bet you share it with someone.  That’s what makes a viral video go viral!

“If we’re going to impact our world in the name of Jesus, it will be because people like you and me took action in the power of the Spirit. Ever since the mission and ministry of Jesus, God has never stopped calling for a movement of “Little Jesuses” to follow him into the world and unleash the remarkable redemptive genius that lies in the very message we carry. Given the situation of the Church in the West, much will now depend on whether we are willing to break out of a stifling herd instinct and find God again in the context of the advancing kingdom of God.” – Alan Hirsch

Quote of the Week – Alan Hirsch

In a meeting this past week someone mentioned the principle that “Everything Speaks.”  The thought behind this statement is that everything beyond just our words communicates a message to the recipient.

Think about it in terms of a restaurant.  Before pulling in the parking lot you see the sign and get a feel for whether it is a fancy or casual restaurant often by the design of the sign.  Your experience begins in the parking lot whether it is easy to navigate or cluttered with trash.  Even when walking in you notice the exterior of the building and then whether you are greeted or not when you walk in the door.  That’s just the beginning of the nonverbal messages that are communicated through your dining experience.  Everything speaks!

This phrase has been running through my mind in every experience I have had this week.  Think about it in terms of your church’s weekend experience.  What speaks in your entrance/parking lot?  What does your lobby and worship center communicate?  What are the faces that people see?  Are they warm and welcoming or cold and insincere?  Are the lights bright or dim? Are your seats comfortable?  Do you pass plates or have a box in the back?  Everything communicates something!  We only get 1 shot at first impression and we must remember that everything speaks.

More than any other place that I have considered this principle is on our website (CommunityBible.com).  When it comes to our web platforms we often think about the words that speak or the commentary in videos, but EVERYTHING SPEAKS!  This goes for the colors on our site, the cleanliness of the design and navigation, the location of our Online Giving, the visibility of our Senior Pastor and so much more.  I know what I am intentionally trying to communicate on the site, but I wonder what we might be unintentionally communicating.   Each week we have thousands of visitors to our website and we cannot afford to communicate the wrong message and neither can you.

I encourage your to process this principle this week.  Think about it in every experience you have and then apply it to your ministry environments and web platforms.

I will be eager to hear your thoughts and what speaks to you through this experience.

“Leadership is solving problems.  The day soldiers stop bringing you their problems is the day you have stopped leading them.  They have either lost confidence that you can help or have concluded you do not care.  Either case is a failure of leadership.” – General Colin Powell

Quote of the Week – General Colin Powell